Oftentimes, getting a girl to fall for you isn't as easy as the movies make it out to be. A girl won't fall for you if you aren't actively trying. It requires an adaptable approach that hinges on your date's personality as well as her emotional and mental status. Your state of mind also takes a major role and if you plan ahead, you can book yourself a second date with your stunning girl.
Ask questions
Don't be too preoccupied with looking good for her. Follow up your proposal with questions that will help you make your date a successful one. It would be a disaster to take her to a skating rink when she has a bad knee from a sports injury, or a dinner for two at the steak house when she's actually vegan.
Prioritize her comfort over your convenience. Ask about food allergies or preferences. You can even jokingly ask her what the worst possible date could be. Take time to make sure that you have all the important information you need.
Give her options
Now that you've secured a date, you can begin making a flexible plan. With the help of local dining and tour guides, you can create an itinerary based on her answers to your questions. Staying organized is important so write everything down! For early dates, research cafes, bistros, shows, concerts, or museum times held in the middle of the day. Neighborhoods that have great spots are ideal because you get to spend less time travelling and more time focusing on the girl.
Handle the unexpected
At this point, you've already gotten everything right. From choosing the right spots to getting the conversation flowing. Now you have to pay attention to any signals your date might give off during the date. If she's enjoying the walk in the museum you’re exploring, stick around longer than you had originally planned. If she insists on waiting 30 minutes for that one movie she's always wanted to see, go for it.
Spontaneity is attractive to women and she will definitely notice your ability to adapt to the unexpected. Planning can only go so far in winning a girl's heart, but demonstrating your adaptability can earn you top marks in her book.
Take the reins
The modern day's shift in gender roles have really changed the dating scene, but as a man, it's still important to take charge. While it may seem cliché, women still appreciate a gentleman especially if he's sincere.
Take the initiative and offer to pay the bill, keep an appropriate distance depending on how comfortable she is, and open the door for her. Pay close attention when she expresses her thoughts and opinions so you can change your behavior accordingly. Be thoughtful throughout your time together.
Eyes on the prize
Make frequent, full eye contact throughout the night. Giving her your full attention makes her enjoy your company even more. Bring up inside jokes, or follow up on conversations that you had throughout your time together. Smile often, be confident, and give her the impression of a successful, happy person that can she can have fun with. Wherever you plan to go or whatever you plan to do, always prioritize having a good time and it will stick with her for weeks.
First dates can be make or break scenarios so if you screw up, take it as a lesson and use it to improve yourself. Use these tips for a better chance at making her fall for you.
How was your recent first date? Did you manage to get a second one? Let us know in the comments!
