Women are delicate creatures. Sure, there are female weightlifters, soldiers, bodybuilders, astronauts, and well, you get the point, but every woman would love to hear that she is beautiful.
While showering her with compliments isn't the guaranteed way to win her heart, sprinkling them here and there can do wonders to her confidence. Maybe even more if she's struggling with confidence issues.
Whether you're enamored with an independent, self-sustaining woman, or she simply needs a boost every now and again; it's important that you learn how to instantly make her feel beautiful with the right compliments.
Be specific
One of the ways to guarantee that she feels that your compliments are genuine is to find something about her physically and tell her she's beautiful for it. Saying she's beautiful too often tends to lose its meaning, so be specific and compliment her on her deep brown eyes, her gorgeous hair, or her stunning figure; it's up to you.
Like how brush strokes, choice of medium, and other such elements make a painting a true piece of art; her different physical aspects make your girl beautiful in her own unique way. Be specific about your compliment otherwise she'll think you're just sweet talking her, and try to focus your compliments on areas she herself had made decisions. Perhaps it's her hairstyle, or a shade of nail polish.
Dig deeper
If you center your compliments solely around her outer beauty, she may eventually doubt your sincerity. What you see isn't just what you get in a woman. Look into her soul, and find what's beautiful about it and let her know. Say that you love how she's wicked smart, that she's a good friend, or that she's immensely patient.
She may not even be aware of these traits and she'll be appreciative that you notice them about her. Letting her feel that she's beautiful in every dimension is a good way to boost her confidence and brighten up her day.
Mix it up
Mix it up and don't just say "You're beautiful". It helps to sit down, think about all the things that make her beautiful and write them down. Don't make a checklist because that may seem insincere. Instead, write her a letter that better express your compliments; a well thought-out letter is far more superior than a stream of compliments.
Be sincere
All your efforts will be for nothing if you forget the main ingredient: Sincerity. It's the most important factor for making your girl feel truly beautiful. So look her in the eyes, take your time, and she will feel the confidence in your compliments. You're not a pickup artist. You're here to make her stay, so say what you mean and mean what you say.
Don't just say what she wants to hear
While compliments and love letters may do wonders to making her feel gorgeous, honesty is also key. Say something nice that's true about her. A returned compliment from her is already an added bonus that you can enjoy.
Word of Warning:
Compliments can be nice, but too much of it can turn bad. The last thing you want is to come off as insincere. Experienced ladies can pick up on sweet talk quick and it can be hard to recover once she catches you compliment her too much. It can make her feel that you're hiding something, or are simply trying to win her over. You're here for the long run, and a girl appreciates consistent efforts and constant care in making her feel special and beautiful.
So the next time you think about blurting out a stream of compliments to your girl in the hopes of making her feel beautiful, take these tips in mind and you may win a heart.
Got a girl you've successfully convinced you're the real deal? What did you do? Share your experiences in the comments below.
