One thing I like to emphasize to my readers, especially the women folks is the importance of being comfortable in your own body. This feeling is one of the major self-confidence boosters every woman needs to know and understand as they grow older regardless of their shape or size. By sincerely accepting yourself the way you are, you feel secure and happy, and your relationships will always blossom.
This realization would inevitably help you to grow as a person and in your relationship with other people, regardless of whether they come from the same place as you or not. Just as a friend who had dated men from Italy, India, Ireland, and England said, “Given the chance, I'd love to find myself another attractive foreigner — because I feel that dating people from faraway lands is a great way to expand my knowledge not only of the world but of myself and what makes me human.”
Dating foreign men might be an entirely new undertaking in the lives of most women but it can be a truly exciting experience for both partners. Just as Teddy Wayne depicted in her recent novel – Kapitoil, about two 20-somethings who are both from two different worlds – Rebecca, a Midwesterner working in New York City, and Karim, a young man from Qatar who got employed in the same hedge fund company where Rebecca works.
Based on the lives of this couple, the book highlights four good reasons to date a foreigner, these reasons are:
The Language Barrier can be Endearing
A lot of spoken English by a foreigner would include words that are stilted yet, oddly charming. For instance, Karim who learned English through the worlds of finance and technology thinks it appropriate to say “I feel enhanced” instead of saying “I feel better.”
The Accent can be Hot
This factor certainly isn’t new. Most foreign accents always sound hot to the ears of both partners, especially when it is used in a seductive way.
It is a Fun Way to Learn More About Another Culture
Meeting foreign men and using free dating sites like datememe is a much more interesting way to learn about different parts of the world, and different cultures, rather than attending a history class.
You Can Feel Connections in Unique Ways
It is true that most people usually bond over things that they and their partners have in common. However, it is also undoubtedly true that you can bond with someone because of your love of something new. Dating a foreigner will expose you to certain things in your relationship that someone from your own background can never offer.
Alright folks, if there are any more benefits or experiences about how dating a foreigner has improved your life that you would like to share, please feel free to let us know in the comments below.
