Love is often blissful, but there are many times where it can also be frustrating. Have you ever had that one guy that you liked but didn't seem to reciprocate the interest? Well, it happens more commonly than you think but it doesn't mean it's impossible to turn around.
If you've been up all night thinking of him and how he never seems to notice you, a little change in tactics might be in order. Know how to get his attention the right way by applying some of these tips.
Be around him
A guy won't notice you if you are barely around, so make sure to hang around with him more often. It's even better if you're in the same social circle, as it allows you more organic opportunities to be with him even if you're just part of the crowd, for now.
Be elusive
After always hanging around, it can help to disappear for a bit so he wonders about you. Don't answer any of his calls for a few days or don't go to your usual hangout spots for a couple of weeks. It sounds counter-intuitive but a little intrigue might just be what you need to get him to think of you.
Converse
When he talks to you, gaze deep into his eyes. Men love a woman who is attentive and is genuinely interested in what you have to say, so charm him with your great listening skills.
Try not to talk about yourself too much. Allow him to carry the conversation, and he is likely to ask questions about you but answer them sparingly. When you are around his friends, pay special attention to him with steady eye contact and specific questions.
Use every opportunity to talk to him and show that you are strongly and sincerely interested in his life. Ask about his hobbies, career, family and friends. The more he reveals to you, the more likely he is to become attracted to you.
Serendipity
While it may sound a tad like stalking, it helps to know where his usual hangout spots are. That way, you can set up "serendipitous" meetings with him and strike up a conversation. Hey, it's not stalking unless you're obsessed. Just make sure that you act genuinely surprised that you ran into him. Men like the thrill of the hunt, so don't make it obvious that you've actually got your sights on him.
Be confident
Men are enamored by confident women. Show him that you love your life and that you are an independent woman. Fascinate him with your career goals or personal longings and avoid looking too clingy or needy. Voice your opinions with confidence but don't be offensive.
Optimize your look
You don't have to completely change yourself for the sake of having a guy like you. You want to still be yourself but a better and improved one.
A good start is to augment your wardrobe with accessories that show off your best features. Be proud of your appearance because your uniqueness is one of the things men will find attractive. It also gives you an air of confidence that will help him better see what's attractive about you.
Always groom yourself well. It's a great start to making sure you're always on his mind.
Above all else, be sincere. Do not pretend to be someone you aren't just for a guy. You're trying to get him to fall for the real you, so don't play any mind games.
How did you manage to get your guy to notice you before he fell for you? Share your story in the comments!
